I have cheated on my husband but successfully ended the affair.

I have cheated on my husband but successfully ended the affair. I feel guilty whenever I see my husband, should I come clean to him? Probably not a question you've received yet… but I want to challenge you with this. Would YOU still be able to respect him if you successfully keep it from him and he continues to be loving towards you? The answer is no. You already don't respect him. If you did, you wouldn't have been capable of cheating on him. Whether or not he can forgive you is irrelevant. You have a partner who you can comfortably bullshit. With this fact accounted for, it can be concluded that what you feel for him isn't love. It's toxic possession. And nothing good will come of its continuation.