My husband cheated on me after 31 years

My husband cheated on me after 31 years (3 adult kids) and told me the reason is "he stop loving me a few years ago". He's been with a married OW for 11 months. Should I divorce or not? Divorce him. He doesn't love you. He is incapable of loving. People that cheat - male or female - are thinking only of their own gratification. They are not worth your time and effort. Do not smear him to your kids, but be honest, and don't sugarcoat it, either. Best of luck!