**A Thought-Provoking Topic: The Decline of Friendship**

**A Thought-Provoking Topic: The Decline of Friendship** I recently read an article in the February issue of *Harvard Business Review* that deeply resonated with me. It discusses how the *“Friendship Recession,”* or the declining trend of meaningful friendships, is slowly taking root in our lives. According to the *American Perspectives Survey*, the number of American adults who say they have *“no close friends”* has quadrupled since 1990, reaching 12%. Meanwhile, the number of people with *“10 or more close friends”* has decreased by one-third. I believe a similar trend is emerging in urban areas of India—while acquaintances are increasing, deep friendships are becoming rarer. In the past, people would easily strike up conversations with strangers at cafés or bars. Now, people sit alone, disconnected from the crowd. In the U.S., the number of people dining alone has risen by 29% in the last two years. Stanford University has even introduced a course called *“Design for Healthy Friendships,”* highlighting that forming and maintaining friendships now requires learning and effort. *This is not just a social issue but a cultural crisis.* Making time for friendship should no longer be a luxury but a priority. Loneliness is no longer a choice; it’s becoming a habit. If we don’t consciously prioritize friendship, not only will making new friends become difficult, but we’ll also lose old connections. Religious gatherings, clubs, sports, and volunteer organizations, which once fostered friendships, are declining. We’ve become confined to social media, family responsibilities, and even pets. Yes, some friends don’t meet because their pets can’t be left alone! Today, friendship is no longer a part of daily life; it happens only when other responsibilities are fulfilled. Yet, research emphasizes the importance of friendship. In Bonnie Ware’s book *The Top Five Regrets of the Dying*, one poignant regret stands out: *“I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends…”* Research shows: - Social isolation increases the risk of heart disease, dementia, and mortality. - It’s as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. - Friendships improve mental, physical, and emotional health. - *Harvard’s 80-year study* found that the greatest source of happiness and health in life is not wealth or career, but close relationships. True friendship is like an investment—forgive, call, make memories, and spend time together. As *Mirza Ghalib* beautifully said: *“O God, grant me the chance to live with my friends…* *…for I can stay with You even after death.”*