I married against my parents’ will.

I married against my parents’ will. They are not accepting my husband. Now my aunt has invited me to my cousin's marriage, but didn’t invite my husband, what should I do? Call her and ask is your husband invited or not . Make sure it's not a misunderstanding on your part . If she says of course he is invited , I thought you would understand , even if the invitation didn't explicitly said so …then you go .. if she's clear that only you are invited or shows reluctance to include your husband in the invitation , then you think about it . Are you okay with showing up there alone ? Do you wish to go ? If you are okay with going alone , ask your husband if he would be upset if you go alone , if you hope this might help to mend relationships between you and your maternal family . He might not get upset at all . But if he's old values and family drama type person , if he shows signs of anger , being upset , then it's wise to not go and focus on your marriage and strengthening your relationship . Would you be upset if someone from his family invites only him and not you ? Would you be angry if he goes alone ? If you wouldn't have any problem with it , maybe tell that to your husband . If you think this invitation was purposefully sent to disrespect your husband , maybe because of cast difference etc and they will continue to the same for future family gatherings , you should not go.