Why does my husband love me more after my infidelity?

Why does my husband love me more after my infidelity? He doesn’t. It’s called hysterical bonding. It’s a studied phenomenon between couples after infidelity that lasts up to a couple of years where you’re seemingly having more sex and connecting. When the hormones come crashing back down, and he starts working through his mind, you’ll feel more distance than you did before the affair. It’s a formal drawn-out ending to your relationship. It isn’t healthy or unique and is based on a feeling of loss. This is why most marriages end 2–5 years after affair discovery. Much better for those involved to end it earlier to spare the wasted time. For those who stay, I’ve not met a couple who doesn’t have a permanent wall between them. Their marriage outwardly looks like any other.