Civilisations rise or perish on mindset’s of its citizens and the leadership.

A forward message. Someone penned this and is a food for thought. Civilisations rise or perish on mindset’s of its citizens and the leadership. Quote Silence in the Group Chat: A Social Experiment on the Modern Hindu Mindset It started off as a casual social experiment during a time of national tension. My old schoolmate Arpan and I, both alumni of one of Hyderabad’s most prestigious schools — batch of 2000 — decided to observe how our peers would respond to real-world issues. This group wasn’t ordinary. It was filled with bright, well-placed individuals: half were settled in the U.S. or Europe, the other half in India, mostly in high-paying jobs in the IT sector, holding management positions. The backbenchers — once dismissed — had turned into entrepreneurs and even politicians. We assumed that this was a group with perspective, curiosity, and the intellectual courage to engage. But we were in for a surprise. When the Pahalgam incident occurred, we brought it up for discussion. The first response: “No heavy topics, please.” The group only wanted funny memes, birthday wishes, and feel-good nostalgia. As the situation escalated into conflict and war, nothing changed. When we brought up issues like radicalisation and the root causes of terrorism, we were told — privately — not to "offend anyone" because “Muslims are also part of this group.” Even when drones flew in and ballistic missiles were launched, the chat remained numb. When we said Jai Shree Ram or Jai Hind, especially after India's military victory, there was no response. Not a single word of solidarity. When we criticized Pakistan’s actions, some responded not with concern or outrage, but with counter-questions about caste discrimination in India — a textbook example of false equivalence. That’s when it dawned on us: we weren’t dealing with a few passive individuals. We were staring at a collective psychological shift among educated, urban Hindus — one that has far-reaching consequences. The Psychology Behind the Silence 1. Post-Colonial Hangover Many of us are products of an education system that subtly — and sometimes openly — glorified Western thought while deriding native Indian values. Colonial narratives painted Indian culture as backward, hierarchical, and problematic. Even after independence, we continued to internalize these narratives, and today, many Hindus instinctively distance themselves from their own civilizational identity in an attempt to appear "progressive" or "neutral." 2. Guilt Conditioning Through Academia and Media From school textbooks to prime-time news, modern Indians are trained to view Hinduism through a lens of guilt — focusing largely on caste, patriarchy, and superstition, while ignoring its contributions to art, science, spirituality, and philosophy. This relentless focus on internal flaws conditions many to feel shame or discomfort when discussing anything Hindu-related in public — even something as simple as saying “Jai Shree Ram.” 3. Global Citizen Syndrome Many of our peers settled abroad or working in MNCs view themselves first as “global citizens.” In this worldview, pride in one's own nation, faith, or cultural identity is seen as parochial, even dangerous. Being politically correct and culturally vague is seen as sophistication. Expressing nationalist sentiment becomes socially risky, especially on WhatsApp groups where professional reputations might be at stake. 4. Fear of Social Isolation In elite social circles, being seen as “right-wing” or “too Hindu” can result in ridicule or exclusion. Therefore, even those who inwardly agree stay silent. Memes are safe. Birthdays are safe. “Jai Hind” may not be. This fear of isolation produces an echo chamber where everyone avoids controversy — even when truth is dying in silence. 5. Extreme Individualism Economic success has also brought with it a hyper-focus on personal growth: career, family, EMIs, vacations. Social consciousness, cultural responsibility, or national identity are seen as distractions or optional extras. “I pay taxes and vote — that’s enough,” becomes the default mindset. 6. Selective Moral Outrage Interestingly, many of these same people are quick to speak out against injustice — but only when it’s fashionable. Issues that align with Western liberal discourse (climate change, minority rights, BLM, Gaza, Ukraine) see active participation. But when India is under attack, or when Hindus face atrocities, the same voices go mute — out of fear, confusion, or indifference. The Larger Implication This silence — this inability to stand up, speak out, or even acknowledge — is not a side effect. It is the main feature of the crisis we’re in. When even the best-educated, most successful Hindus feel awkward expressing cultural pride or national solidarity, we are witnessing a civilizational disconnection. The tragedy isn’t that enemies exist. The tragedy is that the sentinels are asleep. Our social experiment revealed this quiet erosion. It’s not dramatic. It’s not violent. But it’s deadly. And if we don’t understand it, confront it, and rebuild our collective confidence — this silence will become the very sound of decline. Unquote