An Affair and a Funeral

I had an affair several years ago and my husband forgave me. Should I attend the funeral of my affair partner? My husband is devastated by the thought of my attendance I think you should go! I think you should tell everyone you are going and that you care more about attending your affair partners funeral than your current husband! I hope your husband has the good sense to say goodbye permanently because you are a heartache waiting to happen! I suspect from your question you will not understand this answer!