Dialogue with Uday Kumar

[19/07, 11:48] Ravi Valluri: Best story in Mahabharata 🏼🏼🏼

Karna asks Krishna - "My mother left me the moment I was born.

Is it my fault I was born an illegitimate child?

 I did not get education from Dhronacharya because I was considered a non Kshatriya.

 Parshuram taught me but then gave me the curse to forget everything since I was a kshatriya.

A cow was accidentally hit by my arrow & its owner cursed me for no fault of mine.

 I was disgraced in Draupadi's swayamvar.

 Even Kunti finally told me the truth only to save her other sons.

Whatever I received was through Dhuryodhana's charity. So how am I wrong in taking his side?"

Krishna replies,

 "Karna, I was born in a jail.

 Death was waiting for me even before my birth.

 The night I was born I was separated from my birth parents. 

From childhood you grew up hearing the noise of swords, chariots, horses, bow and arrows.

 I got only cow herd's shed, dung and multiple attempts on my life even before I could walk!

No army, no education.

 I could hear people saying I am the reason for all their problems. 

When all of you were being appreciated for your valour by your teachers, I had not even received any education.

 I joined gurukula of Rishi Sandipani only at the age of 16!

You are married to a girl of your choice.

I didn't get the girl I loved & rather ended up marrying those who wanted me or the ones I rescued from demons.

I had to move my whole community from the banks of Yamuna to far off Sea shore, to save them from Jarasandh. I was called a coward for running away.

If Dhuryodhana wins the war you will get lot of credit.

 What do I get if Dharmaraja wins the war? Only the blame for the war and all related problems.

Remember one thing Karna....

 Everybody has challenges in life.

*LIFE IS NOT FAIR ON ANYBODY..*

 Dhuryodhan also has a lot of unfairness in life and so has Yudhishthir. 

But what is Right (Dharma) is known to your Mind (Conscience)....

No matter how much unfairness we got, how many times we were disgraced, how many times we were denied what was due to us, what is important is how you REACTED at that time...

Stop whining Karna.

Life's unfairness does not give you license to walk the wrong path of *अधर्म.*

[19/07, 12:18] Uday Kumar: Sir it was a great learning., last paragraph was much important " not give you license" because many youth in present time often take path of adharm due to life,'s unfairness. Many times I have come through such student who said me I will vanish this society because this society had not given me anything

[19/07, 12:20] Ravi Valluri: How much have we given to the society?

[19/07, 12:22] Uday Kumar: True sir, but they say we are preparing, for it so we can give to society,

[19/07, 12:24] Uday Kumar: When teachers like you reach to one's life, life start change

[19/07, 12:25] Uday Kumar: Unfortunately many people's don't get guru

[19/07, 12:26] Uday Kumar: Due to shortage of teacher's or faith of person

[19/07, 12:26] Uday Kumar: Jgd

[19/07, 12:35] Ravi Valluri: Guru reaches to those who pine for one.Never think that you have found a Guru. It is the Guru who finds you. Teacher can only give you knowledge , Google gives you information.Only a Guru and great works of literature, science and art provide you with wisdom.That gives you the power of discrimation

But you have to pine for that.Cry for that .Chase for it.And suddenly Guru appears from infinity .

[19/07, 12:54] Uday Kumar: Only disgrace persons had to pine

[19/07, 12:54] Ravi Valluri: Read what I said very carefully .You will get the answer.

[19/07, 12:55] Ravi Valluri: No one can permanently happy or unhappy.  Nature does not allow it.It will get bored.

[19/07, 12:56] Uday Kumar: True sir, I agree with it.

[19/07, 12:57] Ravi Valluri: Those who are non believers, agnostics , atheists will find God or Guru through experimentation or by reading or science , technology  , arts etc .

[19/07, 12:58] Ravi Valluri: Believers will pine for Guru / God

[19/07, 12:58] Ravi Valluri: In either case you have to pine and surrender.  You have to do Tapas

[19/07, 12:59] Ravi Valluri: Good books will discover you or God/ Guru will discover you.

[19/07, 13:00] Ravi Valluri: Dronacharya and Krishna discovered Around.And not vice versa

[19/07, 13:01] Ravi Valluri: Karna Ashwathama Ekalavya cheated in some way .Thus they never got complete knowledge

[19/07, 13:03] Ravi Valluri: It is like a good Test Cricketer will always play well in 50 over match or T-20. But some one who plays only T-20 can never be a Test Cricketer. And that is Tapas .That is pining