Thursday 26 December 2019

Best Foods for Men Over 55- As received




Best Foods for Men Over 55


The best foods for men over 55 include foods that are going to support the heath of your heart, prostate, bones, sexual performance, and brain. Eating a healthy balanced diet is going to help keep you healthy and help you maintain a good quality of life. Men over age 55 require fewer calories than younger men, but vitamin and mineral requirements remain the same. 

Heart Health

Omega-3 fatty acids are important for your heart, but they also support your brain and prostate health. You can get them from flaxseed, which is high in fiber and can help lower cholesterol, as well as foods like fish such as salmon and tuna.
It is essential to eat foods high in iron as well. Iron is a mineral that is used in many cell functions, including carrying oxygen from your lungs (as part of the protein hemoglobin) throughout your body. Iron is found in legumes like beans, peas, and lentils as well as in oily fish and lean red meat.
As your age it is important to limit your salt intake, as too much salt can raise your blood pressure. High blood pressure increases your risk for heart problems like heart disease and stroke.

Bone Health

Osteoporosis is a major health problem for aging men. When your bone density decreases, your risk for bone fractures goes up. Nuts like almonds contain vitamin, E, zinc, and magnesium, which are all essential for bone density.
You need to get plenty of vitamin D and to eat calcium-rich foods. You may immediately think of dairy foods like milk, yogurt, and cheese when you think of calcium, but these are not necessarily the best foods for prostate health. Better sources of calcium for aging men include green leafy vegetables like broccoli and cabbage, and canned fish with soft bones, like sardines. Vitamin D helps you to absorb calcium. Dietary sources include eggs, oily fish, and some fortified cereals. Your body makes vitamin D from sun exposure as well, but your body may not absorb vitamin D as efficiently as it used to. If you are deficient in vitamin D despite getting 20 minutes of sunlight each day you might consider taking a supplement.
 

Prostate Health

By age 55, one half of all men have symptoms of enlarged prostate, also known as benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH). By age 85, that number climbs to 90%. The best foods for men over 55 that support prostate health include foods and drinks high in antioxidants and phytonutrients like green tea, pomegranates, tomatoes, turmeric, mushrooms, cayenne pepper, and broccoli.These help fight prostate cancer. Risk of prostate cancer also increases as you age.
Even if you regularly eat the foods, it is hard to get everything you need to support your prostate health through diet, so supplements can help you get the nutritional benefits of eating way more than you can physically consume. Take a supplement for prostate health that contains green tea, vitamin D, curcumin, and zinc  for restoring your prostate health.

Sexual Performance

Your sexual performance can be affected by your diet. In fact, many men are surprised to learn that their sexual health is tied to their Heart health, so eating a heart-healthy diet will help maintain your sexual health. Oats, along with green vegetables, seeds, ginseng, and nuts, contain L-arginine, an amino acid that enhances the effect nitric oxide has on reducing stiffness of blood vessels. L-arginine has been used to treat erectile dysfunction. It works like Viagra to help relax muscles around blood vessels in the penis. When the blood vessels dilate, blood flow increases so a man can maintain an erection. Another way to boost your sexual performance is by eating foods that boost testosterone in the bloodstream like oatmeal and beets. Testosterone affects sex drive and orgasm strength.

Brain Health

Berries are some of the best foods for men over 55. Berries are particularly good for brain health as are fish. Overall, a diet high in antioxidants from a variety of fruits and vegetables will help fight off dementia and lower risk for Alzheimer’s disease. Eating berries, apples, and tea has been shown to prevent Parkinson’s disease. Try to eat a cup of berries every day.
Green leafy vegetables like spinach are some of the best foods for men over 60 because of their benefits in brain health. People in their 50s who eat more leafy green vegetables score higher on verbal, memory, and other tests than their peers who do not eat green vegetables.
Omega-3 fatty acids are a type of fat that is also important for your brain health. These essential fatty acids help regulate your mood, reduce inflammation, and protect neurons.

Beyond the Best Foods for Men Over 55

Besides eating well, there are a few more things to keep in mind if you are over 55. It is important for you to watch your weight. You don’t want to be over- or underweight. Extra pounds are going to make it harder to get around, put more stress on your joints, and put you at risk for diabetes and heart disease. Being underweight is a sign that you are not eating enough food and could increase your risk for osteoporosis. It could also indicate other health issues. Watch out for lack of appetite, which is common as people age. Make a conscious effort to eat well and to eat regular meals. In addition, it is important to stay hydrated and to increase your fiber intake as you age to keep your digestive health moving along. 

Following these steps and regularly eating the best foods for men over 55 is going to keep you healthy and alert for many years to come.

Saturday 14 December 2019

NaMo 303:Words to Victory


Tara India Research Press (trade division of India Research Press) recently published a book titled, 'NaMo 303 - Words to Victory', that I have authored . This  book is a collection of quotations and thoughts spanning the period from 2014 to 2019, of Hon'l Prime Minister of India. There are 303 quotations, signifying the number seats won by the BJP in the 2019 general elections.
The topics covered are- The Man, Leadership, India: Government and Governance, India and the World, Make in India, Jobs and Technology, Opportunities and Progress, Swachh Bharat : Cleanliness and Environment, Demonetisation and Black Money, GST and Economic Policies, Infrastructure- Rail, Road and Construction, Yoga and Spirituality, Surgical Strikes and The Voice of New India.
In 303 quotes this book attempts to decode the mind of the PM through his own words to show glimpses of a man of humble beginnings who rose from being a chaiwala to occupying the highest office of the land, not once but twice and perhaps maybe more.

The book is available on Amazon.in:
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On the Tara Press website (www.indiaresearchpress.com).



Monday 25 November 2019

Just a Drop



Just Drop*💧

Once a Crow, holding on to a piece of meat was flying to find a place to sit & eat. 

However, an Eagle started chasing it. The crow was anxious and was flying higher and higher, yet the eagle was after the poor crow. 

Just then "Garuda" saw the plight and  pain in the eyes of the crow. 

Garuda being the bird of wisdom spoke "Oh my friend!! That eagle is not after you to kill you!! It is after that piece of meat that you are holding in your beak. Just drop it and see what will happen”.

The crow followed the advice of Garuda and dropped the piece of meat, and there you go, the eagle flew towards the falling meat.

Garuda smiled and said "The Pain is only till you hold on to it. *Just Drop* it”.

The crow bowed and said "I dropped this piece of meat, now, I can fly even higher”.

*Do you carry  the huge burden called "Ego," which creates a false identity about us, saying "I need love, I need to be invited, I am so and so.. etc..." ???*
*-Just Drop*.💧

*Do you get irritated fast by "others’ actions" it may be a friend, parents, children, a colleague, life partner... and get the fumes of "anger "? - Just Drop*.💧

*Do you compare yourself with others.. in beauty, wealth, life style, marks, talent and appraisals and feel disturbed with such comparisons and negative emotions ?*
 *- Just Drop*💧

*Just drop the burden*  ðŸ’§ðŸ’§ðŸ’§
*And evolve & fly Higher..

Valmiki and Hanman





*When Valmiki completed his Ramayana, Narada said 'It's good, but Hanuman's is better'.*

Valmiki didn't like that and wondered whose Ramayana was better. He found Hanuman's Ramayana inscribed on seven broad leaves of a banana tree. He read it and found it to be perfect. The most exquisite choice of grammar and vocabulary, metre and melody. He couldn't help himself. He started to cry. 'Is it so bad?' asked Hanuman 'No, it is so good', said Valmiki 'Then why are you crying?' asked Hanuman. 'Because after reading your Ramayana no one will read mine,' replied Valmiki.

Hearing this Hanuman tore up the banana leaves stating “Now no one will ever read Hanuman's Ramayana” “But why?” asked Valmiki. Hanuman said, 'You need your Ramayana more than I need mine. You wrote your Ramayana so that the world remembers Valmiki; I wrote my Ramayana so that I remember Ram.'

At that moment Valmiki realized how he had been consumed by the desire for validation through his work. He had not used the work to liberate himself from the fear of invalidation. His Ramayana was a product of ambition; but Hanuman's Ramayana was a product of devotion. That's why Hanuman's Ramayana sounded so much better.

There are people like Hanuman who don't want to be famous. They just do their jobs and fulfill their purpose. 

*There are many unsung "Hanumans" too...in our life...our spouses, parents, friends and colleagues....let's remember them and be grateful to all.....*

The Intrepid Swami

Thursday 21 November 2019

*Karmic Connection The Game Of Boomerangs*




*Karmic Connection The Game Of Boomerangs*

Karma is the energy  we send out into the world in the form of thoughts, words and action.  It’s like an arrow which we shoot and after hitting the target it returns back to us as our destiny— our health, our career, our relationships, situations which come to us daily.  Very often we find ourselves feeling that we have always been nice to everyone, then why are things not happening right for us.  We start questioning the Law of Karma.  Law of Karma is a Spiritual Law. Universe returns back what we give  ( our thought, word and action) ..
      What we are experiencing today is only carry forward of our past karma...... for example, if someone is not being nice to us, has cheated us, let us remember they are only returning what we have given them before.  They are not wrong, it’s all very fair. We cannot change what they are doing , that is a return of our past karma, but we have a choice of how to feel and behave now, because that is our present karma will decide our  present (today) and future destiny.  
    If we choose to create hurt, anger, revenge now, we are then continuing the vicious cycle of negative karmic accounts.  If we choose forgiveness, compassion, stability , we are changing the quality and beginning a positive karmic account. We are creating our destiny. 
       We cannot change our past, but let us be careful in the present and perform positive actions . Our response today will 

Tuesday 12 November 2019

We need Modi’s brand of shock and awe




We need Modi’s brand of shock and awe
Chanakya
October 04, 2014

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Like the Cheshire cat in Alice in Wonderland, India had slowly faded away from the scene, leaving behind images of the wordless, self-effacing uniformly clad prime minister at the end of UPA 2. It was an image which was easy to ignore, easy to dismiss as unimportant, even sneer at. And now like a thunderclap comes the new kid on the block, sartorially spiffy, quick with the acronyms and one-liners, wearing his humble origins on his designer kurta sleeve.
Ah, said the Cassandras, why does he need to be so vocal, why does he not get to work? Why does he need to go trotting all over the world, when people are not getting two square meals a day at home? Who is he trying to impress with the glib sales pitch, no one believes in India as an investment destination anymore? And so on. Yes, on the face of it, all these criticisms are valid. Indeed, perhaps Narendra Modi has been a little too much in your face for the comfort of some people. But the majority both here and abroad are relieved that they can see and hear the man at the helm of the ship of State.
In case you had not noticed, India, which was at one time the darling of the investors, had dropped off the radar altogether. No one was queuing up at the door, cheque in hand, to set up shop here. We were being downgraded steadily by the ratings agencies. People were giving us a wide berth. Scandal after scandal had reduced our stock to ‘highly avoidable’ status. And now comes a self-confessed small man trying to shake things up.
Yes, the show at Madison Square Garden was not in the best of taste, yes, the prime minister of India could have avoided schmoozing with the likes of Jay-Z at the Global Citizen Festival at Central Park, New York, but at the end of the day, you are talking about it, aren’t you? India is back in the consciousness of people once again. And that is what matters, not the immediate gain this may or may not bring.
And this I think was Modi’s gameplan. He was not planning to come back home with a bucketload of contracts, he was not reckoning on coming home with sacks full of money. His plan was to come home after having made India a talking point once again, aided by the garba diplomacy of the loyal Gujarati flock.
This is the Modi version of shock and awe. A neighbour who was looking longingly at Beijing is now all gung-ho about India. People lined up on the streets of Kathmandu to greet the ‘rock star’ prime minister. In the quiet Zen-like calm of Kyoto, Modi with his hugs and drumbeats charmed the normally aloof and imperious Japanese. India, they felt, was a partner once again, even one that could perhaps stick it to the Chinese. On the sides of the United Nations recently, our man was all over the place like a hurricane, meeting and greeting other leaders from Sheikh Hasina to the pugnacious Benjamin Netanyahu. Will all this amount to real gain for India? It will, though it cannot happen overnight. But the calculation of the man, who, many feel, is the natural inheritor to the mantle of Sardar Vallabhai Patel, is that once India gets back into the international lexicon as more than a place of dynasties and despair, maybe the good times will roll.
There is nothing else that he can really do, is there? As I see it, he is trying to pull India up by its bootstraps and tell the world we are here too and not half as bad as you think. Sure, there were some over-the-top moments, but that is just his style. And sometimes you need to be in-your-face to get noticed. After all, Dubya was not exactly a retiring soul, neither was Bill Clinton, nor indeed is our dear neighbour Nawaz Sharif. So, the kvetching that Modi is a little too loud for our genteel taste doesn’t cut any ice with me.
The problem, of course, is that this is the opening band before the real show starts. Modi has got the eyeballs, now he has to play out the concert. It has been far too long that India has prided itself on leaders who were rarely seen and even more rarely heard. It is not my intention to criticise those who have gone before. But for goodness sake, Manmohan Singh with his vast erudition, his economist’s hat could surely have done a better job of selling India to investors. After all, his credentials were impeccable. He didn’t, choosing to keep quiet as all around him fell apart, as the economy steadily went southwards. And now, upon the shoulders of Modi falls the onerous task of putting things back on track. And we expect him to deliver. He is doing that by telling people that we are open for business and he will patch things along as the days go by. He has no option, really, don’t you think? He has been dealt a really rotten economic hand.
Of course, the US visit has been the most high-profile but he has been relentlessly pursuing his agenda of making India visible once again and lay out the welcome mat whether to businessmen or tourists. The tales of food deprivation add to the Modi story. On a diet of little more than water, with not even a 15-minute vacation since he took over, he was selling the India story.
So I think the critics should put a lid on it. Would they prefer that we are just a strange and large blob on the map, at best a land of poverty and scams or a country trying to dress up and slap on the make-up, not too successfully, but getting there? It is a no-brainer.
So we need the peripatetic PM, on kem cho terms with Obama, sprinkling the world with his dhokla diplomacy. It might be difficult to digest for many, but we will taste a bit of success all around if he continues his dandiya march.
- See more at: http://www.hindustantimes.com/comment/chanakya/we-need-modi-s-brand-of-shock-and-awe

Sunday 10 November 2019

CO-INCIDENCE OF LIFE:




CO-INCIDENCE OF LIFE:

1. TEMPLE  has 6 letters so does MASJID and CHURCH.

2. GEETA has 5 letters so does QURAN and BIBLE.

3. LIFE has 4 letters so does DEAD.

4. HATE has 4 letters, so does LOVE.

5. ENEMIES has 7, so does FRIENDS.

6. LYING has 5, so does TRUTH.

7. HURT has 4, so does HEAL.

8. NEGATIVE has 8, so does POSITIVE.

9. FAILURE has 7, so does SUCCESS.

10. BELOW has 5, so does ABOVE.

11. CRY has 3 letters so does JOY.

12. ANGER has 5 so does HAPPY.

13. RIGHT has 5 so does WRONG.

14. RICH has 4 so does POOR.

15. FAIL has 4 so does PASS

16. KNOWLEDGE has 9 so does IGNORANCE.

Are they all by Co-incidence?
Plz read full msg
5ive undeniable Facts
of Life :

👉1.
Don't educate  
your children
to be rich.
Educate them
to be Happy.
So when
they grow up
they will know
the value of things
not the price

👉2.
Best awarded words
in London ...

"Eat your food
as your medicines.
Otherwise
you have to
eat medicines
as your food"

👉3.
The One
who loves you
will never leave you
because
even if there are
100 reasons
to give up
he will find
one reason
to hold on

👉4.
There is
a lot of difference
between
human being
and being human.
A Few understand it.

👉5.
You are loved
when you are born.
You will be loved
when you die.
In between
You have to manage...!


Nice line from Ratan Tata's Lecture-

If u want to Walk Fast, 
Walk Alone..!
But 
if u want to Walk Far,
Walk Together..!!


Six Best Doctors in the World-
          1.Sunlight
              2.Rest
          3.Exercise
             4.Diet
   5.Self Confidence
                   &
          6.Friends
Maintain them in all stages of Life and enjoy healthy life


If   you   see   the   moon ..... You   see    the    beauty    of    God .....   If    you   see    the   Sun ..... You   see    the    power   of    God .....   And ....    If   you   see   the   Mirror ..... You   see     the    best    Creation of   GOD .... So    Believe   in     YOURSELF..... :) :) :).


We all are tourists & God is our travel agent who 
already fixed all our Routes Reservations & Destinations
So!
Trust him & Enjoy the "Trip" called LIFE...

Thursday 31 October 2019

BIG BOOK AA





 FORESIGHT AND HINDSIGHT
 Around the Year with Emmet Fox
 November 1

When you have to make a decision or take a certain action,
all that you can do is to do the best you know at that time,
and if you do that you will have done your duty.
 In the light of after events it may turn out that you made a mistake,
but that will not be your fault because you could not possibly
do better than the best you know at the time.
Claim that the Christ is guiding you; and believe it,
and the ultimate outcome will be favorable
even if things seem to go wrong for a time.
“And the Lord shall guide thee continually”
Isaiah 58:11

Tuesday 29 October 2019

HERE IS A Comparison between Shankara and quantum physics.-- As received




HERE IS A Comparison between Shankara and quantum physics.

*Adi Shankaracharya*
This world is  (maya) an illusion.
*Quantum Physics*
The world we see and perceive are not real, they are just 3D projections of mind.

*Adi Shankaracharya*
Brahma sathya jagan mithya --Only the Brahman is the absulote reality
*Quantum Physics*
Only that conciousness is reality

*Adi Shankaracharya*
The Brahmanda is created and dissolved again in to the para -brahman.
*Quantum Physics*
The atoms bind together to make planets, stars ,comets and at some time later they dis-integrate and merge with conciousness.

*Adi Shankaracharya*
Jivatma is nothing but a seperated soul from Brahman. and has to strive to merge with Brahman called moksha
*Quantum Physics*
Everyone was once part of one conciousness  later seperated. And has to merge back to that consciousness.

*Adi Shankaracharya*
when the Jiva becomes realised then it is the state of nirvana, the jiva beyond - time , space and mind.
*Quantum Physics*
when someone deeply understands that consciousness then there is no time, no space and no mind.

*Adi Shankaracharya*
Jiva feels he is real because of the presence of mind.
*Quantum Physics*
Individuality is an illusion that is caused by mind.

*Adi Shankaracharya*
Brahman cannot be realised through senses,because they are limited.
*Quantum Physics*
Infinity cannot be understood with finite mediums.

*Adi Shankaracharya and Quantum Physics* ---
We are all one consciousness experiencing differently subjectively (because of different karma). There is no such thing as death, life is just a dream. we are eternal beings. The reality as you know does not exist.

What the entire Quantum physicists have understood is just a part of Advaita Philosophy of Adi Shankaracharya which is purely derived from the Vedas. There exists none greater a scientist than Adi Shankaracharya .

The  unchanging reality is called God by common people, called consciousness by scientists, called energy by believers.

we are all the same consciousness but appear differently because of our own actions. With a single line stated by Shankara "ब्रह्मा सत्य जगन मिथ्या, जीवो ब्रह्मैव न अपरह Brahman is the only reality , the living entity is not different from Brahman" that has revealed the inner most knowledge.

Nothing can match Adi  Shankara' s selfless service in the field of science and contributions to the world.

Monday 14 October 2019

HEALTH HINTS*




HEALTH HINTS*

 *A. Two things to check as often as you can*
(1) Your blood pressure.
(2) Your blood sugar.

*B. Six things to reduce to the minimum on your foods:*
(1) Salt
(2) Sugar
(3) Preserved meat and foods
(4) Red meat especially roasted
(5) Dairy products
(6) Starchy products

*C. Four things to increase in your foods’*
(1) Greens/vegetables 
(2) Beans 
(3) Fruits
(4) Nuts

*D. Three things you need to forget:*
(1) Your age 
(2) Your past 
(3) Your grievances 

*E. Four things you must have, no matter how weak or how strong you are:*
(1) Friends who truly love you
(2) Caring family
(3) Positive thoughts
(4) A warm home.

*F. Five things you need to do to stay healthy:* 
(1) Fasting
(2) Smiling / Laughing  
(3) Trek / Exercise
(4) Reduce your weight
(5) Company of good friends

*G. Six things you don't have to do:*
(1) Don't wait till you are hungry to eat
(2) Don't wait till you are thirsty to drink
(3) Don't wait till you are sleepy to sleep
(4) Don't wait till you feel tired to rest
(5) Don't wait till you get sick, to go for medical check-ups otherwise you will only regret later in life
(6) Don’t wait till you have problem, before you pray to your God.

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF !!!

Thursday 10 October 2019

Karthika Masa Rudra Puja




Jai Gurudev.

Dear Teachers,

Karthika maasa is known for celebrations and it's the month to increase our satva and multifold it with chantings and satsangs.

Avail this opportunity to organise Rudra Pujas in your centers or at your homes or also in our Gnana kshetras where lots of people can gather and meditate together.

Kartika Masa begins October 28 to November 27, 2019. 

Let's all come together and organise Rudra Pujas in big numbers and increase satva in the society.

The Sky Gets Dark Slowly- As received




The Sky Gets Dark, Slowly*

Mao Dun literary prize winner Zhou Daxin’s latest novel to be published, “The Sky Gets Dark, Slowly”, is a sensitive exploration of old age and the complex, hidden emotional worlds of the elderly in a  rapidly ageing population.
 
In it he writes, “…Many elderly speak as though they know everything, but of old age they are in fact as ignorant as children. Many elderly are in fact, completely unprepared for what they are to face when it comes to getting old and the road that lays ahead of them.

In the time between a person turning 60 years old, as they begin to age, right until all the lights go out and the sky gets dark, there are some situations to keep in mind, so that you will be prepared for what is to come, and you will not panic.

1.
The people by your side will only continue to grow smaller in number. People in your parents’ and grandparents’ generation have largely all left, whilst many your peers will increasingly find it harder to look after themselves, and the younger generations will all be busy with their own lives. Even your wife or husband may depart earlier than you, or than you would expect, and what might then come are days of emptiness. You will have to learn how to live alone, and to enjoy and embrace solitude.

2.
Society will care less and less for you. No matter how glorious your previous career was or how famous you were, ageing will always transform you into a regular old man and old lady. The spotlight no longer shines on you, and you have to learn to contend with standing quietly in one corner, to admire and appreciate the hubbub and views that come after you, and you must overcome the urge to be envious or grumble.

3.
The road ahead will be rocky and full of precarity. Fractures, cardio-vascular blockages, brain atrophy, cancer… these are all possible guests that could pay you a visit any time, and you would not be able to turn them away. You will have to live with illness and ailments, to view them as friends, even; do not fantasise about stable, quiet days without any trouble in your body. Maintaining a positive mentality and get appropriate, adequate exercise is your duty, and you have to encourage yourself to keep at it consistently.

4.
Prepare for bed-bound life, a return to the infant state. Our mothers brought us into this world on a bed, and after a journey of twists and turns and a life of struggle, we return to our starting point – the bed – and to the state of having to be looked after by others. The only difference being, where we once had our mothers to care for us, when we prepare to leave, we may not have our kin to look after us. Even if we have kin, their care may never come close to that of your mother’s; you will, more likely than not, be cared for by nursing staff who bear zero relation to you, wearing smiles on their faces all whilst carrying weariness and boredom in their hearts. Lay still and don’t be difficult; remember to be grateful.

5.
There will be many swindlers and scammers along the way. Many of them know that the elderly have lots of savings, and will endlessly be thinking of ways to cheat them of their money: through scam phone calls, text messages, mail, food and product samples, get-rich-quick schemes, products for longevity or enlightenment… basically, all they want is to get all the money. Beware, and be careful, hold your money close to you. A fool and his money are soon parted, so spend your pennies wisely. 

Before the sky gets dark, the last stretches of life’s journey will gradually get dimmer and dimmer; naturally, it will be harder to see the path ahead that you are treading towards, and it will be harder to keep going forward. As such, upon turning 60, it would do us all well to see life for what it is, to cherish what we have, to enjoy life whilst we can, and to not take on society’s troubles or your children’s and grandchildren’s affairs on for yourself. Stay humble, don’t act superior on account of your own age and talk down to others – this will hurt yourself as much as it will hurt others. As we get older, all the better should we be able to understand what respect is and what it counts for. In these later days of your lives, you have to understand what it means, to let go of your attachments, to mentally prepare yourself. The way of nature is the way of life; go with its flow, and live with equanimity.

For all of us, a nice read, very beautiful, very true .... ! 

Hardly the day started and ...  it is already six o'clock in the evening.

Barely arrived on Monday and it's already  Friday.

... and the month is almost over.
... and the year is almost up.
... and already 50 or 60 or 70 years of our lives have passed.
... and we realize that we lost our parents, friends.
and we realize that it is too late to go back ...

So ...  Let's try  to take full advantage of the time we have left ...
Let's not stop looking for activities that we like ...
Let's put color in our greyness ...
Let's smile at the little things in life that put balm in our hearts.

And yet, we must continue to enjoy serenely the time that remains. 
Let's try to eliminate the "after" ...
I do it after ...
I will say after ...
I will think about it after ...
We leave everything for 'later' as if "after" was ours.

Because what we do not understand is that:
after,  the coffee cools ...
after,  priorities change ...
after,  the charm is broken ...
after,  health passes ...
after,  the children grow up ...
after,  the parents get older ...
after,  the promises are forgotten ...
after,  the day becomes the night ...
after,  life ends ...
And all that afters, we find it's often too late ....

So ...  leave nothing for 'later' ...
Because in always waiting for later, we can lose the best moments,
the best experiences,
the best friends,
the best family ...
The day is today ... The moment is now ...

We are no longer at the age where we can afford to postpone until tomorrow what needs to be done right away.

So let's see if you'll have time to read this message and then share it.

Or maybe you'll leave it for ... "later" ...
And you will not share it "ever" ....

Even share with those who are not yet "seniors".

The Hedonistic Treadmill - As received




The ‘Hedonic Treadmill’

Let’s assume that you believe buying a fancy new car will make you happy. In the short term, it might: for the first week or so, you’ll probably experience great pleasure when you drive. Over time, however, your joy will fade, a phenomenon psychologists call hedonic adaptation. Before long, your new car will blend into your surroundings, and your mind will fixate on something else to pursue in the quest for happiness.

This cycle is called the Hedonic Treadmill: we pursue pleasurable things because we think they’ll make us happy. When we finally achieve or acquire what we’re seeking, we adapt to our success in a very short period of time, and our success no longer gives us pleasure. As a result, we begin seeking something new, and the cycle repeats.

The Hedonic Treadmill explains why people who achieve wealth, status, and fame continue to seek more. Since we’re not satisfied with what we have for very long, it’s only a matter of time before we fixate on something else to achieve or possess.

The Hedonic Treadmill is a major problem if you’d like to experience a feeling of success or achievement for an extended period of time. It’s possible to work hard, invest, sacrifice, and push your way to the top of your field, only to find yourself restless and despondent. You’d be surprised at how many “successful” people aren’t happy with their lives, even after they’ve achieved everything they set out to do.

Short-circuiting the Hedonic Treadmill is tricky: it’s a side effect of Caveman Syndrome. There are, however, a few things we can focus on that tend to lead to sustained levels of life satisfaction. Based on the available research, here are five priorities that will contribute to your long-term happiness in a way that minimizes hedonic adaptation:

1. Work to make “enough” money.

Money contributes to happiness, but only to a certain point. According to a study by Daniel Kahneman and Angus Deaton, money has a positive correlation with reported levels of happiness up to an annual income of approximately $75,000 USD per year, which represents an income in the top third of US households in 2008-2009, the years of the study. This level of income is very achievable: average household income in the study was $71,500.

Once you have enough money to cover the necessities and a few luxuries, you reach a point of Diminishing Returns: every $1 you earn doesn’t provide the same amount of utility. Beyond the point of Diminishing Returns, having more money doesn’t increase happiness, and may actually decrease it by becoming a source of stress and worry. (For examples of how money can decrease happiness, read Fables of Fortune: What Rich People Have That You Don’t Want by Richard Watts.)

Knowing your monetary point of Diminishing Returns is useful: by consciously limiting your consumption beyond a certain point and establishing long-term savings, you can reap the benefits of financial security and Resiliencewithout spending every waking moment working to pay for pleasures you’ll adapt to in less than a month.

As a general rule: experiences contribute more to happiness than material goods. Beyond the point where your needs are met, you’ll get a higher emotional return for your dollar by traveling with people you like than by purchasing an expensive luxury item.

2. Focus on improving your health and energy.

Health is a major contributing factor to happiness: when you feel great, you’re more likely to feel happy. The converse is also true: when you feel ill, you tend to experience less pleasure, enjoyment, and life satisfaction.

Experimenting with ways to improve your typical level of health and energy can result in huge improvements in your quality of life. Remember, the human body has Performance Requirements: food, exercise, and rest are not optional. If you make it a priority to give your body what it needs to thrive, you’ll reap the rewards over the years to come.

3. Spend time with people you enjoy.

One of the single biggest predictors of happiness is the amount of time you spend with people you enjoy: family, friends, and like-minded acquaintances. The context and environment are less important than the people you spend time with.

Different people need different levels of social contact to feel happy. Extroverted people feel energized by social contact, and need to be around others on a regular basis. Introverted people (like me) can go days or weeks with little social contact, and generally get their energy from spending time alone. Still, introverted people benefit from spending time with people they like: regular social time with friends is highly correlated with major sustained increases in life satisfaction. Long meals and trips with friends are a great use of time

According to Dr. George Vaillant, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development (the longest-running longitudinal study of mental health), the results of the study boil down to this: “the only thing that really matters in life are your relationships with other people.”

4. Remove chronic annoyances.

There are many things in life that can wear on your nerves. Examining ways to reduce or eliminate chronic stresses or annoyances can generate signifiant improvements in life satisfaction.

If you find driving in rush hour traffic stressful, moving closer to work is a good solution. If you don’t like your current job, start looking for another. If you find working with a particular customer annoying, fire them. If you always forget to pack your laptop’s power cable when you travel, buy a second cable that stays in your travel bag. By finding simple ways to remove unnecessary stress and frustration, you’ll spend less time and energy feeling bad, and more time feeling good.

5. Pursue a new challenge.

Most people assume retirees feel overjoyed, but that’s often not the case. It’s common for people to derive a sense of purpose and enjoyment from their work, and retirees can feel empty and lost when their former career is no longer a priority. Left unresolved, this sense of loss can spiral into depression.

The solution is to take on an exciting new challenge. This challenge can be anything: acquiring a new skill, completing a big project, or pursuing a major accomplishment. Whether it’s learning a new language, playing an instrument, building something from scratch, or completing a marathon, striving for new achievement is the best way to experience happiness and growth over long periods of time.

Focusing on experiences over material goods goes a long way if you want to step off the Hedonic Treadmill. In the immortal words of Charles Kingsley, a 19th century historian and clergyman: “We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about.
Very very apt choice of perspective to share though it's a bit long. I think we should read this carefully and REFLECT!!!The ‘Hedonic Treadmill’

Let’s assume that you believe buying a fancy new car will make you happy. In the short term, it might: for the first week or so, you’ll probably experience great pleasure when you drive. Over time, however, your joy will fade, a phenomenon psychologists call hedonic adaptation. Before long, your new car will blend into your surroundings, and your mind will fixate on something else to pursue in the quest for happiness.

This cycle is called the Hedonic Treadmill: we pursue pleasurable things because we think they’ll make us happy. When we finally achieve or acquire what we’re seeking, we adapt to our success in a very short period of time, and our success no longer gives us pleasure. As a result, we begin seeking something new, and the cycle repeats.

The Hedonic Treadmill explains why people who achieve wealth, status, and fame continue to seek more. Since we’re not satisfied with what we have for very long, it’s only a matter of time before we fixate on something else to achieve or possess.

The Hedonic Treadmill is a major problem if you’d like to experience a feeling of success or achievement for an extended period of time. It’s possible to work hard, invest, sacrifice, and push your way to the top of your field, only to find yourself restless and despondent. You’d be surprised at how many “successful” people aren’t happy with their lives, even after they’ve achieved everything they set out to do.

Short-circuiting the Hedonic Treadmill is tricky: it’s a side effect of Caveman Syndrome. There are, however, a few things we can focus on that tend to lead to sustained levels of life satisfaction. Based on the available research, here are five priorities that will contribute to your long-term happiness in a way that minimizes hedonic adaptation:

1. Work to make “enough” money.

Money contributes to happiness, but only to a certain point. According to a study by Daniel Kahneman and Angus Deaton, money has a positive correlation with reported levels of happiness up to an annual income of approximately $75,000 USD per year, which represents an income in the top third of US households in 2008-2009, the years of the study. This level of income is very achievable: average household income in the study was $71,500.

Once you have enough money to cover the necessities and a few luxuries, you reach a point of Diminishing Returns: every $1 you earn doesn’t provide the same amount of utility. Beyond the point of Diminishing Returns, having more money doesn’t increase happiness, and may actually decrease it by becoming a source of stress and worry. (For examples of how money can decrease happiness, read Fables of Fortune: What Rich People Have That You Don’t Want by Richard Watts.)

Knowing your monetary point of Diminishing Returns is useful: by consciously limiting your consumption beyond a certain point and establishing long-term savings, you can reap the benefits of financial security and Resiliencewithout spending every waking moment working to pay for pleasures you’ll adapt to in less than a month.

As a general rule: experiences contribute more to happiness than material goods. Beyond the point where your needs are met, you’ll get a higher emotional return for your dollar by traveling with people you like than by purchasing an expensive luxury item.

2. Focus on improving your health and energy.

Health is a major contributing factor to happiness: when you feel great, you’re more likely to feel happy. The converse is also true: when you feel ill, you tend to experience less pleasure, enjoyment, and life satisfaction.

Experimenting with ways to improve your typical level of health and energy can result in huge improvements in your quality of life. Remember, the human body has Performance Requirements: food, exercise, and rest are not optional. If you make it a priority to give your body what it needs to thrive, you’ll reap the rewards over the years to come.

3. Spend time with people you enjoy.

One of the single biggest predictors of happiness is the amount of time you spend with people you enjoy: family, friends, and like-minded acquaintances. The context and environment are less important than the people you spend time with.

Different people need different levels of social contact to feel happy. Extroverted people feel energized by social contact, and need to be around others on a regular basis. Introverted people (like me) can go days or weeks with little social contact, and generally get their energy from spending time alone. Still, introverted people benefit from spending time with people they like: regular social time with friends is highly correlated with major sustained increases in life satisfaction. Long meals and trips with friends are a great use of time

According to Dr. George Vaillant, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development (the longest-running longitudinal study of mental health), the results of the study boil down to this: “the only thing that really matters in life are your relationships with other people.”

4. Remove chronic annoyances.

There are many things in life that can wear on your nerves. Examining ways to reduce or eliminate chronic stresses or annoyances can generate signifiant improvements in life satisfaction.

If you find driving in rush hour traffic stressful, moving closer to work is a good solution. If you don’t like your current job, start looking for another. If you find working with a particular customer annoying, fire them. If you always forget to pack your laptop’s power cable when you travel, buy a second cable that stays in your travel bag. By finding simple ways to remove unnecessary stress and frustration, you’ll spend less time and energy feeling bad, and more time feeling good.

5. Pursue a new challenge.

Most people assume retirees feel overjoyed, but that’s often not the case. It’s common for people to derive a sense of purpose and enjoyment from their work, and retirees can feel empty and lost when their former career is no longer a priority. Left unresolved, this sense of loss can spiral into depression.

The solution is to take on an exciting new challenge. This challenge can be anything: acquiring a new skill, completing a big project, or pursuing a major accomplishment. Whether it’s learning a new language, playing an instrument, building something from scratch, or completing a marathon, striving for new achievement is the best way to experience happiness and growth over long periods of time.

Focusing on experiences over material goods goes a long way if you want to step off the Hedonic Treadmill. In the immortal words of Charles Kingsley, a 19th century historian and clergyman: “We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about.
Very very apt choice of perspective to share though it's a bit long. I think we should read this carefully and REFLECT!!!The ‘Hedonic Treadmill’

Let’s assume that you believe buying a fancy new car will make you happy. In the short term, it might: for the first week or so, you’ll probably experience great pleasure when you drive. Over time, however, your joy will fade, a phenomenon psychologists call hedonic adaptation. Before long, your new car will blend into your surroundings, and your mind will fixate on something else to pursue in the quest for happiness.

This cycle is called the Hedonic Treadmill: we pursue pleasurable things because we think they’ll make us happy. When we finally achieve or acquire what we’re seeking, we adapt to our success in a very short period of time, and our success no longer gives us pleasure. As a result, we begin seeking something new, and the cycle repeats.

The Hedonic Treadmill explains why people who achieve wealth, status, and fame continue to seek more. Since we’re not satisfied with what we have for very long, it’s only a matter of time before we fixate on something else to achieve or possess.

The Hedonic Treadmill is a major problem if you’d like to experience a feeling of success or achievement for an extended period of time. It’s possible to work hard, invest, sacrifice, and push your way to the top of your field, only to find yourself restless and despondent. You’d be surprised at how many “successful” people aren’t happy with their lives, even after they’ve achieved everything they set out to do.

Short-circuiting the Hedonic Treadmill is tricky: it’s a side effect of Caveman Syndrome. There are, however, a few things we can focus on that tend to lead to sustained levels of life satisfaction. Based on the available research, here are five priorities that will contribute to your long-term happiness in a way that minimizes hedonic adaptation:

1. Work to make “enough” money.

Money contributes to happiness, but only to a certain point. According to a study by Daniel Kahneman and Angus Deaton, money has a positive correlation with reported levels of happiness up to an annual income of approximately $75,000 USD per year, which represents an income in the top third of US households in 2008-2009, the years of the study. This level of income is very achievable: average household income in the study was $71,500.

Once you have enough money to cover the necessities and a few luxuries, you reach a point of Diminishing Returns: every $1 you earn doesn’t provide the same amount of utility. Beyond the point of Diminishing Returns, having more money doesn’t increase happiness, and may actually decrease it by becoming a source of stress and worry. (For examples of how money can decrease happiness, read Fables of Fortune: What Rich People Have That You Don’t Want by Richard Watts.)

Knowing your monetary point of Diminishing Returns is useful: by consciously limiting your consumption beyond a certain point and establishing long-term savings, you can reap the benefits of financial security and Resiliencewithout spending every waking moment working to pay for pleasures you’ll adapt to in less than a month.

As a general rule: experiences contribute more to happiness than material goods. Beyond the point where your needs are met, you’ll get a higher emotional return for your dollar by traveling with people you like than by purchasing an expensive luxury item.

2. Focus on improving your health and energy.

Health is a major contributing factor to happiness: when you feel great, you’re more likely to feel happy. The converse is also true: when you feel ill, you tend to experience less pleasure, enjoyment, and life satisfaction.

Experimenting with ways to improve your typical level of health and energy can result in huge improvements in your quality of life. Remember, the human body has Performance Requirements: food, exercise, and rest are not optional. If you make it a priority to give your body what it needs to thrive, you’ll reap the rewards over the years to come.

3. Spend time with people you enjoy.

One of the single biggest predictors of happiness is the amount of time you spend with people you enjoy: family, friends, and like-minded acquaintances. The context and environment are less important than the people you spend time with.

Different people need different levels of social contact to feel happy. Extroverted people feel energized by social contact, and need to be around others on a regular basis. Introverted people (like me) can go days or weeks with little social contact, and generally get their energy from spending time alone. Still, introverted people benefit from spending time with people they like: regular social time with friends is highly correlated with major sustained increases in life satisfaction. Long meals and trips with friends are a great use of time

According to Dr. George Vaillant, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development (the longest-running longitudinal study of mental health), the results of the study boil down to this: “the only thing that really matters in life are your relationships with other people.”

4. Remove chronic annoyances.

There are many things in life that can wear on your nerves. Examining ways to reduce or eliminate chronic stresses or annoyances can generate signifiant improvements in life satisfaction.

If you find driving in rush hour traffic stressful, moving closer to work is a good solution. If you don’t like your current job, start looking for another. If you find working with a particular customer annoying, fire them. If you always forget to pack your laptop’s power cable when you travel, buy a second cable that stays in your travel bag. By finding simple ways to remove unnecessary stress and frustration, you’ll spend less time and energy feeling bad, and more time feeling good.

5. Pursue a new challenge.

Most people assume retirees feel overjoyed, but that’s often not the case. It’s common for people to derive a sense of purpose and enjoyment from their work, and retirees can feel empty and lost when their former career is no longer a priority. Left unresolved, this sense of loss can spiral into depression.

The solution is to take on an exciting new challenge. This challenge can be anything: acquiring a new skill, completing a big project, or pursuing a major accomplishment. Whether it’s learning a new language, playing an instrument, building something from scratch, or completing a marathon, striving for new achievement is the best way to experience happiness and growth over long periods of time.

Focusing on experiences over material goods goes a long way if you want to step off the Hedonic Treadmill. In the immortal words of Charles Kingsley, a 19th century historian and clergyman: “We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about.
Very very apt choice of perspective to share though it's a bit long. I think we should read this carefully and REFLECT!!!The ‘Hedonic Treadmill’

Let’s assume that you believe buying a fancy new car will make you happy. In the short term, it might: for the first week or so, you’ll probably experience great pleasure when you drive. Over time, however, your joy will fade, a phenomenon psychologists call hedonic adaptation. Before long, your new car will blend into your surroundings, and your mind will fixate on something else to pursue in the quest for happiness.

This cycle is called the Hedonic Treadmill: we pursue pleasurable things because we think they’ll make us happy. When we finally achieve or acquire what we’re seeking, we adapt to our success in a very short period of time, and our success no longer gives us pleasure. As a result, we begin seeking something new, and the cycle repeats.

The Hedonic Treadmill explains why people who achieve wealth, status, and fame continue to seek more. Since we’re not satisfied with what we have for very long, it’s only a matter of time before we fixate on something else to achieve or possess.

The Hedonic Treadmill is a major problem if you’d like to experience a feeling of success or achievement for an extended period of time. It’s possible to work hard, invest, sacrifice, and push your way to the top of your field, only to find yourself restless and despondent. You’d be surprised at how many “successful” people aren’t happy with their lives, even after they’ve achieved everything they set out to do.

Short-circuiting the Hedonic Treadmill is tricky: it’s a side effect of Caveman Syndrome. There are, however, a few things we can focus on that tend to lead to sustained levels of life satisfaction. Based on the available research, here are five priorities that will contribute to your long-term happiness in a way that minimizes hedonic adaptation:

1. Work to make “enough” money.

Money contributes to happiness, but only to a certain point. According to a study by Daniel Kahneman and Angus Deaton, money has a positive correlation with reported levels of happiness up to an annual income of approximately $75,000 USD per year, which represents an income in the top third of US households in 2008-2009, the years of the study. This level of income is very achievable: average household income in the study was $71,500.

Once you have enough money to cover the necessities and a few luxuries, you reach a point of Diminishing Returns: every $1 you earn doesn’t provide the same amount of utility. Beyond the point of Diminishing Returns, having more money doesn’t increase happiness, and may actually decrease it by becoming a source of stress and worry. (For examples of how money can decrease happiness, read Fables of Fortune: What Rich People Have That You Don’t Want by Richard Watts.)

Knowing your monetary point of Diminishing Returns is useful: by consciously limiting your consumption beyond a certain point and establishing long-term savings, you can reap the benefits of financial security and Resiliencewithout spending every waking moment working to pay for pleasures you’ll adapt to in less than a month.

As a general rule: experiences contribute more to happiness than material goods. Beyond the point where your needs are met, you’ll get a higher emotional return for your dollar by traveling with people you like than by purchasing an expensive luxury item.

2. Focus on improving your health and energy.

Health is a major contributing factor to happiness: when you feel great, you’re more likely to feel happy. The converse is also true: when you feel ill, you tend to experience less pleasure, enjoyment, and life satisfaction.

Experimenting with ways to improve your typical level of health and energy can result in huge improvements in your quality of life. Remember, the human body has Performance Requirements: food, exercise, and rest are not optional. If you make it a priority to give your body what it needs to thrive, you’ll reap the rewards over the years to come.

3. Spend time with people you enjoy.

One of the single biggest predictors of happiness is the amount of time you spend with people you enjoy: family, friends, and like-minded acquaintances. The context and environment are less important than the people you spend time with.

Different people need different levels of social contact to feel happy. Extroverted people feel energized by social contact, and need to be around others on a regular basis. Introverted people (like me) can go days or weeks with little social contact, and generally get their energy from spending time alone. Still, introverted people benefit from spending time with people they like: regular social time with friends is highly correlated with major sustained increases in life satisfaction. Long meals and trips with friends are a great use of time

According to Dr. George Vaillant, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development (the longest-running longitudinal study of mental health), the results of the study boil down to this: “the only thing that really matters in life are your relationships with other people.”

4. Remove chronic annoyances.

There are many things in life that can wear on your nerves. Examining ways to reduce or eliminate chronic stresses or annoyances can generate signifiant improvements in life satisfaction.

If you find driving in rush hour traffic stressful, moving closer to work is a good solution. If you don’t like your current job, start looking for another. If you find working with a particular customer annoying, fire them. If you always forget to pack your laptop’s power cable when you travel, buy a second cable that stays in your travel bag. By finding simple ways to remove unnecessary stress and frustration, you’ll spend less time and energy feeling bad, and more time feeling good.

5. Pursue a new challenge.

Most people assume retirees feel overjoyed, but that’s often not the case. It’s common for people to derive a sense of purpose and enjoyment from their work, and retirees can feel empty and lost when their former career is no longer a priority. Left unresolved, this sense of loss can spiral into depression.

The solution is to take on an exciting new challenge. This challenge can be anything: acquiring a new skill, completing a big project, or pursuing a major accomplishment. Whether it’s learning a new language, playing an instrument, building something from scratch, or completing a marathon, striving for new achievement is the best way to experience happiness and growth over long periods of time.

Focusing on experiences over material goods goes a long way if you want to step off the Hedonic Treadmill. In the immortal words of Charles Kingsley, a 19th century historian and clergyman: “We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about.
Very very apt choice of perspective to share though it's a bit long. I think we should read this carefully and REFLECT!!!